Dating: Why Should You Be the Discount Item on a Grocery Store?

When you decide to announce yourself before God announces you on the altar, you are making plan to stagnate your life with envy. And when you announced yourself like that, God may leave you to fight the battles that come as a result of your premature issuing. You see, when a premature baby comes out forcefully before its time, the baby would need external life force or support to keep it alive because its internal organs are not fully developed or matured to undertake the task required of them. It would need gas to help its lungs breathe instead of the natural air. So also, when a man runs ahead of God’s timing, he would start looking for man’s artificial help instead of God’s natural provision.

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What to do when your Waiting Lingers Longer (Part 1)

If by your dressing, you attract a man’s libido instead of his love, he will always tell you he loves you even when he’s only interested in exploring your body for sexual gratification.

If by trying to impress a man, you make yourself taller with stiletto than you are naturally giftedly tall. No man wants to begin with a hill. They want a woman they feel they can nurture. A man feels more masculine and protective when he is taller.

If by trying to look beautiful, you so much wear make-up that your future husband can hardly recognize you. The brother is not seeing the picture of you God gave him, even when you are sitting beside him inside the church. He is frustrated. My dear sister, look good and dress well. You have no reason to be ugly, but don’t wear excessive make up.

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Life Will Never Be Equal for All

Did you remember when you left school? How life flung your whole graduating set to different parts of the world? Some landed abroad. Some landed in top companies. Some landed in marriage. Some landed in their remote villages with no sign of active life. Some landed in nursery schools as teachers. Some landed oil company jobs. Some got scholarships. At last, in the first five years after graduation, only 10 % landed their dream jobs while 90% kept tossing on a different continuum, far from their wildest dreams. Even those who co-habited in school were they not flung apart?

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